WHY WRITE?
I wouldn’t say that there was any specific reason made me decide to finally write. From the accumulation of many life changes recently, writing has been a form of escapism that has allowed me to process and formulate my thoughts clearly.
Here is an extended version of variables that attributed to finally pulling trigger:
- To have a space to explore and conversations lost somewhere in my notes app
- Wanting to hold myself accountable in terms of discipline and consistency
- The desire to document my thoughts, ideas, and mental framework that has led to the decisions I have made. Simply put, to lay out what sums me up as a person and how I got where I am.
I wish to channel my habit of oversharing into something written with (some) intention — and in doing so, hoping to offer a new perspective, or at the very least, a bit of entertainment to you, the 1.219E-10 × N of the world who might stumble across this.
If you are curious as to who this person rambling on the internet is, scroll down to find some scattered pieces of me – or at least the ones I’ve chosen to share.
BASICS
Tiffany [23F]
- INFJ disguised as ENFP (wavering)
- NYC, from DMV
- current hobbies: dance, minesweeper, chess, vibe-coding, port building, journaling, overthinking
- studied international relations (business & psychology), working in-house pr, pivoting in progress
THINGS I GREW UP ALONGSIDE:
- Pets: my yorkie Scarlett and pom Lychee. Silver arowana + 5 blood parrot cichlids
- Languages: Chinese, Korean (conversational), Cantonese (3 yr old level), French (in progress)
- Instruments I play: piano, oboe, kalimba, guitar (paused attempt), flute (prev)
- Casual sports: badminton, figure skating, running (before torn acl), skiing/snowboarding
- Dance: grew up pre-prof in ballet, Chinese folk dance alongside such, currently attempting hip hop
- Favorite cuisines: Chinese, Japanese, Italian, Korean, Spanish
- Top travels: China, Switzerland, Maldives, Japan, Dubai
MISCELLANEOUS
CURRENT CONSISTENCIES IN LIFE
- minesweeper
- 10k steps a day (no more it’s freezing!)
- dance: weekly
- reading + journaling
- listening to podcasts
- chess (less)
- vibe-coding + side projects
- badminton: bi-weekly
SHORT TERM GOALS
3 months-2 years
- pivoting – new position
- building…
- furnishing new apartment to desired appearance
LONG TERM GOALS
3 – 10 years
- retire the family
- secure 3+ real estate investments
- secure life partner..
BUCKET LIST
no timeline, but to fulfill at least once
- travels: Iceland, Finland, Norway, Salzburg, Mongolia, Kazakhstan/Kyrgyzstan, Lijiang, Amalfi Coast
- be in a fighter jet
already fulfilled items
- travels: Switzerland, Maldives, Hokaiddo, Dali
- skydiving (5/10)
If you made it this far, thank you so much for your time, seriously! Feel free to drop a note about anything and everything.
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